10 e Key point: Communication and Understanding
To convey his emotions c is communicate their desires, their desires and disagreements. It is also affirm its values and vision.
Speak adopting the''I''post- you will develop better communication. And better identify what happens in you.
During conflict, it is best to express his emotions after''crisis''- a time for taking a step back, reflected and partly understood the situation . It is very important - to find common ground - to try to understand, and understand the vision of another.
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Example: I feel sad at the idea that you can not not you join us [...] Now that you me have explained that [...] I understand better!
Like the franchise; proactvité I love, I love the storage, I love when house rules are respected by all, and so on.
I do not agree with you, personally [...] but I understand that you may have a different view of things ... I'm interested!
I overreacted! At the time I was invaded (e) by my memories and emotions!
I accept that you do not want to sleep [...] but tomorrow morning you gotta get up early [...]
I have a personal problem facing The reaction you had ... How could we do to find a solution to understanding and comfortable with this topic of discussion?
''Every person in his own way of working, this depends on its history and what he was taught.''
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Communicating is also exchange with each other and taking into consideration the vision of others - the same or opposite. is listen to what the other has to say in its entirety! Accept differences of opinion, behavior, life history ... is to appreciate the person's identity.
Try to put yourself in his place, is try to understand it ... It is to accept him, his thoughts and what she has to say!
Communicating is also build projects together, find solutions to a problem or about a conflict situation.
may very well not agree on a subject, where a fact ... but different and complementary at the same time, the main thing is to find - together - an agreement, opening a constructive solution for everyone.
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''self-education is ... maintaining a desire to learn''
''curiosity, envy, open-mindedness ... are our allies ...''
soon,
Sincerely,
Stephanie
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